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… God never abandons us.

… We get knocked down,

but we get up again and keep going…

… our spirits are being renewed every day.

For the troubles we see will soon be over,

but the joys to come

will last forever.

2 Corinthians 4:8-10, 16-18 NLT

 

When you are experiencing deep inner pain, you don’t need more advice.

You need to KNOW you are loved.

You need to be LOVED.

If you are to understand how God heals your pain, you must first truly understand the basic Christian truth that underscores every single aspect of the good news of Jesus: namely, that the Lord LOVES YOU without ANY strings attached, just as you are —warts and all.

This might sound like Christianity 101 —pretty obvious and basic stuff.

But for many of us Christian women, it might be neither obvious nor basic.

The fact is that many Christian women who love the Lord have never experienced DIRECTLY AND FIRSTHAND for themselves God’s LOVE for them.

I hadn’t either —until a day came 40 years ago in my mid-thirties when I experienced a fierce personal trauma and needed God’s help urgently, but simply couldn’t ‘find’ Him.

In fact, He seemed to have disappeared off my radar just when I needed Him most.

My dire situation propelled me to ask God for urgent help. He led me to a very experienced, holy, humble Christian woman who had dedicated her entire life to the Lord. She also happened to be a well-trained Christian spiritual guide.

It was this woman who shared with me without any fanfare the best-kept secret of Christianity: namely, that once you know how to actually EXPERIENCE God’s love whenever you want or need it, God finds you and HEALS YOU in the intensely painful times of your life.

He literally LOVES you into NEW life!

But before you experience God’s presence and love firsthand, you need to do one thing: you need to consciously invite God into your experience of deep inner pain.

You see, the Lord desires to live IN your pain, NOT SOMEWHERE OUTSIDE IT.

 

Sometimes on the Christian Journey You Need Another’s Help

The path to God’s love is simple; but to walk it effectively, especially at the beginning, you need a little help from someone who has already walked that path and is familiar with it.

I have specifically created this audio to give you just this help.

3 Points worth Remembering

1. When you hurt, God hurts too. When you cry, God cries too! Always remember this. Perhaps you’re not aware of this.

2. Trying to go forwards without being able to experience firsthand for yourself, one-on-one, God’s love —whenever you want or need it —is  like trying to walk on one foot. You might possibly manage OK when life is easy and straightforward. 

   But when really tough times and crises arrive, you’ll start to wobble and get tired. You might eventually stumble.

   This is why knowing HOW to experience firsthand for yourself God’s love for you is so vital for your healing from deep inner pain.

3. God is the Lord of the present moment, not just of the past and future!
   So, it’s vitally important to know how to connect to Him at ANY given moment in a real way whenever you want or need to —but especially when you’re in pain.

Always Remember This Simple Way of Praying/Connecting with God

As with any meaningful relationship in your life, it’s critically important to be able to maintain your relationship with the Lord, to connect and pray to Him, no matter what’s going on in your external circumstances.

If you forget everything else in this audio, remember the simple, guaranteed way to experience God’s presence, love, and rest.

My FREE Guide (see below) shows you how.

This very special way of prayer is often known as ‘Prayer of the Heart’.

For Jesus and the Father, the word ‘heart’ refers to your entire being. No part of you is left out. Your ‘heart’ is in fact…

• your conscience
• your will
• your decision-making centre
• your words
• your thoughts
• your actions
• your emotions
• your spirit

When you pray in this special way, you are bringing and offering to the Lord the ENTIRE person that you are.

This is PRECISELY WHY this way of prayer ALWAYS gets results.

God can now HEAL EVERY SINGLE PART of your being.

That’s what you’re bringing to Him when you pray with your heart.

This is why praying and entering into God’s presence in this particular way for just 10 – 20 minutes each day is GUARANTEED to impart to you…

• NEW life gifted to you directly by God
• God’s UNIQUE, HEALING BRAND OF LOVE
• God’s PEACE
• God’s JOY

This is the way through your deep inner pain to authentic, lasting healing.

You and God become PARTNERS in your healing journey.

God becomes your personal Teacher.

To learn how to pray with your heart, get my Guide:

How to Regain, and Maintain,

God’s Lasting Inner Peace and Joy:

A Guaranteed Way to Experience God’s Presence, Love and Rest One-On-One

A Very Important Tip

When the pain is especially intense or overwhelming, ask God to give you an experience of His consolation.

Some Helpful Exercises

These help you…

• get in touch with your feelings
• express these feelings directly to the Lord himself

Both things are important when you’re dealing with pain.

Exercise 1

Read s-l-o-w-l-y (reading aloud is helpful) these words of the psalmist, David.

Read them slowly twice.

Replace ‘us’ with ‘me’.

Replace ‘we’ with ‘I’.

Replace ‘our’ with ‘my’.

…you have rejected and humbled us (ME)…

You made us (ME) retreat before the enemy…

You gave us (ME) up to be devoured like sheep…

All this happened to us (ME),

Although we (I) had not forgotten you

Or been false to your covenant.

Our (MY) heart had not turned back;

Our (MY) feet had not strayed from your path.

But you have crushed us (ME)…

And covered us (ME) over with deep darkness.

…Why do you hide your face…?

Psalm 44: 9-11, 17-19, 23-24, 26 NIV

  (My emphasis)                                         

Now jot down your answers to the following questions.

Don’t fall to the temptation to over-think or analyze. Let your answers come straight from your heart and gut.

Be honest.

 

1. Which of David’s emotions can you relate to in your life right now? Be specific.

2. Can you feel David’s sense of rejection?

3. Which words in these verses express David’s feeling of rejection most convincingly for you?
   Spend some time on this.

4. Why exactly did David feel that the Lord was treating him unjustly?

5. Do you feel that God is treating you unjustly?
   Be honest. Be as specific as you can.       

6. Reflect for a few minutes on what you have written down.

 

Exercise 2

Now write the Lord a letter.

Ask Him anything you like.

Ask Him the same question David asked: …Why do you hide your face…?

Tell the Lord how YOU feel about Him right now.

Tell Him why you feel this way.

Be honest and hold nothing back.

Be as specific in your letter as you can.

Then thank the Lord for anything, no matter how small, that you are grateful for.

Try to thank Him for at least 2 or 3 things.

Close your letter by asking the Lord to reveal Himself to you in a way that you’ll KNOW it’s really Him and not just your imagination.

Ask Him to give you the faith to receive that revelation.

Believe as much as you possibly can that He will.

Ask God to give you the faith to give over to Him your painful situation and the problems it causes.

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As you practice praying with your heart in the Lord’s presence for a few minutes each day, you’ll find that your trust and faith in the Lord will get stronger.

At this point, I recommend that you also use the ‘Breath Prayer’  to help you even more to receive this faith and/or whatever you need MOST in your life right now.

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Disclaimer

No content on this website should ever be used as a substitute for direct medical advice from your doctor or other qualified health professional or clinician

Watch out for my next article/video/audio in 4 weeks

 

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Other articles to help you

Are You Running from Your Pain? PART 1   

Are You Running from Your Pain? PART 2     

Are You Running from Your Pain? PART 3        

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Using just 2 simple steps, this paint-by-numbers resource guides you into God’s presence and His healing love, peace and joy. Then you will know how to EXPERIENCE FIRSTHAND FOR YOURSELF THE LORD’S PRESENCE, LOVE, and PEACE!

To inspire you and help you get even more comfortable and at-ease with this way of prayer, get the Guide’s extremely popular and encouraging accompaniment here:

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